There is such dire need for issues like these to be addressed. window.__mirage2 = {petok:"JW.xeV8p4o0gibLpop4tX9.JFQiLOiIWBdVZWHhPENw-1800-0"}; In which case, if the young daughter experiences a wet dream, she may not know the. I believe you can still benefit many many other girls in yoru community or your family and many can learn from you. For a pre-teen, its incredibly tough knowing that their body is changing especially when they dont have anything other than their Biology classes and their friends to go on. What Should I Do after Seeing a Wet Dream. Your email address will not be published. Other uncategorized cookies are those that are being analyzed and have not been classified into a category as yet. My friend concentrates the shower on her stomach just above her sura she feels gd and has initial vaginal throbbing but stops before any orgasm or ejaculation she stopped masturbating once i explained that its haram and is wondering wether this is too if it is she promised shhe will stop but is reluctant to do so yet coz she heard people could get orgasms through a workout so y cnt she arouse herself through the shower if it feels gd plz reply wether its haram or nt thank u. I had a wet dream and i felt orgasm but when i woke up i did not felt wet. Yasir Qadhi: To be honest we rarely find such DETAILED discussion in fiqh books, most likely because men are not as familiar with this topic as they should be. But what about the hadith mentioned above, by Sarah I believe- secondly i need to ask that i have a problem of lakoria and i cant distinguish between my wetnees n lakoria so in that case i am not sure that wether i get discharge or not due to wet dream so i shud do ghusal or not? like a dream in a dream. https://seekersguidance.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/Sleeping-Dream.jpg, https://seekersguidance.org/svg/Logo/SG_Logo_v23.svg. Any suggestions on how to open up the topic of puberty etc etc with children? Naturally, you need to empty it so your body can make more. There is no specific way. It is also advised not to drink excessive fluids before going to bed or sleeping on a full stomach. If I have shower, will the get rid of the impure state from the wet dream even though I am on my menstraul cycle? You can break the ice and start educating them BUT if they are already teenagers then it will be a bit complicated to connect with thembut still possible inshaAllah, and Allah knows best. May Allah grant us and you well-being. Subhanak Allah wa bi Hamdika wa tabarak Asmuka wa taala jaduka wa la ilaha ghayruk. i woke up from sleep and i found a white discharge and i do not remember any wet dreamdo i need ghusl? I have also had a baby through c section as i couldnt labor him. How can you agree with someones opinion over RasoolAllaah sallallhu alayhee wsalam? normally a wet dream is only consisted of something sexual.but if it is accompanied with chest pressure, scary dreams then, Allah knows best, it is something different Wet dreams do not reduce sperm count. you could always get a water conserving bidet, and save a tree or two or three. There is no shame in matters of religion and we take them all seriously. We perceive that you are affected with some sort of Waswaas (devilish whisperings/obsessive doubts), so we advise you to ignore them and not pay any attention to them. Jazkullah khayrun for your responses. jazakAllaahu khairan. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience. To conclude, since the female wet dream may or may not be accompanied by a discharge, contrary to that of men, I posed a few questions to the shuyukh based on the discussion I had with other women and I received following answers from Sh. Uncertainty about purity and wet dream. - IslamQA If you are unsure that you really did experience an orgasm while sleeping without finding any wetness upon waking up you can also assume that it didnt happen because certainty is not lifted by doubts in the sharia. yasir, the reason we asked if it is just the discharge is because it could be the regular vaginal discharge (in case a woman is not sure whether she had an orgasm or not during the dream). Convert: Issues with Family Dog & Learning Fiqh. He embarked on his journey of learning through the various teachers at SeekersGuidance, including his mentor Shaykh Faraz Rabbani. The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. My husband is not living with me for short period of time so of course i havent been intimate. read the updated part in the post above, it should help inshaAllah, Pingback: Should Parents Tell Their Children About Changing Hormones? I hope you continue to write on matters of relevance to Muslims, especially the ladies. Right now there is no extra discharge even. Ive been having some issue to the point i feel like i have ocd. If you have a wet dream when you are fasting and you notice discharge, does it break fast? . i need to know if i is normal or i need to consult to doctor? The scholars of the Hanafi school stated that if someone wakes up and finds Mathy and he remembers having a wet dream, then he is obliged to perform Ghusl. asak..please let me know about this clearly im much confused. somebody explain. 1.) How to distinguish if the discharge is from climax or just the one that breaks wudu? Create an account, If you do not have an account, you can click the button below to create one, Create new account It is important to note here though that sometimes a female may wake up in the middle of the dream, before having an orgasm. There are very few female scholars that we know of. If it is only from sexual excitement then wudu should suffice. Also after my period I usually get extra discharge white clear liquid and I am not sure if its because my hormones are quite high during this time as it is usually when I have these dreams. No doubt one most ask in order to educate themselves. What I do when taking ghusl is rinse my mouth and clean my nose and then take a shower beause I heard and may Allaah forgive me that the whole body must be wet and there should be no dry part on your body where the water hasnt reached. I was going through female ejaculation on google and some researches indicate and scientists say that sometimes when women are sexually excited the fluid ie semen can be secreted even without orgasm.Then do women have to perform ghusl every time they are sexually excited even if there is no orgasm or sexual pleasure?It will make life difficult for women since female ejaculate is very difficult to differenciate from other female discharges.Please clarify since i am very depressed due to waswasas and it is making my life difficult. I appreciate you writing this article it helped clarify a lot. Hence, I decided to contribute this piece, along with the help of a professional Gynecologist, Dr. Fatimah Lalani and Shaykh Yasir Qadhi, so it may help and benefit all the sisters who read this. Barakallahu Feek, dear Hadith Check for your kind words . 2. 4. i have had an orgasm while sleeping and im not sure if i saw discharge or not but any way i prayed the next day without ghusl and i certainly did not know that i have to ghusl before i pray so what i want to know is , will god accept my prayer ? Umm Reem, Im not sure you understood her question. If I have some kind of sexy dream and when I awake up I remember the sexy dream and found a little mazi on my penis,will gusl will cumpulsory on me,because I have heard that if u remember the sexy dream and found mazi then u have to take gusl,I am hanfi and plz tell me in "yes or no" do not refer me to another fatwa. Saba Syed (aka Umm Reem) is the author of International award winning novel, "An Acquaintance." Yaqeen or very strong presumption of wet dream which must include an orgasm.-Extra vaginal discharge but no wet dream/sexual dream or doubts about dream (you dont remember clearly experiencing orgasm) ghusl not required, I am confused, i had a weird dream and I dont remember if it was a wet dream or notBasically i woke up for isha, I felt wetness but I thought it must be vaginal discharge, then I slept again, woke up for fajr and prayed fajr and then i was sitting staring at the clock that i remembered my dream, i didnt like it, I was not a good Muslim and everything it felt wrong, I wannit time to come back and I was going to tell my best friend about it but the exact nature of dream i kept on recalling and regretting..It had something to do with my lack of imaan i was worried about to the point things went out of hand.and I dun remember if I had this dream before or after isha, like i dun remember if it was followed by vaginal discharge, i cant recall anything much clearly apart from the fact there was something, some part of it which was disturbing and I didnt like it, it wasnt satisfying for me..I dunno if this counts as a wet dream or am I again under influence of waswas which i am constantlyPlease help me hereI am so confused, i m tired and exhausted, feel flewish, with my throat filled with mucus type feeling, i dunno wat to do, my mom has never informed me of wet dreams or anything, i read this stuff myself about taharah. It helped me clear up so many confusions that I had regarding this particular issue. However he has a mutabaa for this hadith as that same incident was also related by someone else with a sound chain from the hadith of Anas may Allah be pleased with him. If things need to be explained to you in detail or Anything else that worries you Go ask a real scholar with haya. Rather, as in many places in the shariah, one has to return to ones common sense and ones observation based on what one is reasonably sure of (ghalaba al-Dhann). Also because i know it is compulsory to make ghusl for the latter.I hope you can help clarify this problem.Thank u. salamualikum. It's normal to roll over while your sleep, so don't get upset if you wake up on your stomach. 4. Make your daughter feel comfortable, do not pass any embarrassing comments, put a smile on your face but be precise. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Im a little worried now because i think ive become paranoid about being aroused, any little feeling i get im always worried whether or not if ive discharged. i never masturbate nor even touch my private parts for pleasure or any i just think of a guy in the need of love and suddenly i realize its just fake and try to push away those thoughts from my mind yet some times i find a colorless liquid after that, is ghusl mandatory in this case? http://muslimmatters.org/2010/09/22/quandary-of-female-vaginal-discharge/, As Salamualaykoom wa rahamtullah, Every one of you brothers and sisters, go to islamqa.com, type in the keywords of your questions and concerns, 9 times out of 10 you will find your answer on the utmost embarrassing issues answered by real scholars. Do you have any idea how strange an article like this appears to non-Muslims? According to the Hanafi Madhab, you should also rinse your mouth and bring water up to the bridge (hard bony part) of your nose. Regular vaginal discharge has left many sisters confused as to whether a) it is najis (impure) therefore requiring her to wash off undergarments and legs b) it breaks one's wudu . I didnt do a ghusl after this bacause I was not sure. And received an Its okay miss, we understand. Followed by a patient silence, but Ive wondered and at times discovered extreme unhappiness behind those good manners, particularly with regard to the issues in your post, exacerbated with an obligatory cultural guilt. Let me ask you a question and anyone else who may deem it acceptable to ask about such matters on a forum, with men and women speaking about their own experiences on having an orgasm or a wet dream, rather than ask a scholar: If RasoolAllaah sallallhu alayhee wsalam was reading everything in this forum, would you dare utter such words like: It is not as simple to explain the orgasm in words. Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with relevant ads and marketing campaigns. I dont get orgasm but there is a wetness is this a wet dream that I am having and do I need to make ghusl as i experience the throbbing and it wakes me up. Their words seem to prove the neutrality of performing this act, and thus it is permissable . is that considered masturbation even if i never rubbed or inserted anything into my vagina. //]]>, Join our e-mail list for regular site news and updates, All Rights Reserved for Islam Q&A 1997-2023. My sister who is only 16 woke up too from my moaning and saw me orgasm; it is very embaressing. Is there any islamic advice on this. If a women experiences such a discharge should she simply clean up her vaginal area with water and make fresh wudu or is she required to make ghusl? This does not purify as it does not count as washing. - IslamQA Answered by: Aalimah Nasima Umm Hamza Question: Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah! Salaam. and she needs to evaluate the situation why these thoughts keeping coming back to herif she is interacting with that man then she should stop if she can. Ruling on Wadiy (thick white fluid which comes out after passing urine), Traces of Semen Remained on His Leg after Ghusl, Discharged Transparent Liquid after Rubbing Penis: Does It Necessitate Ghusl or Just Ablution, He Is Not Sure About the Discharge Whether it is Mathiyy or Otherwise, About to Get Married and Has Whispers about Semen, Religions, Sects and Da'wah (Call to Islam), Jinaayaat (Criminology) and Islamic Judicial System, Islamic Politics and International Affairs, Medical Issues, Media, Culture and Means of Entertainment. I do have discharge every day, they vary between white/yellow/thick/thin. 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[Abu Dawood, at-Tirmizi]. Wet dreams are as normal for women as they are for men. Umm Salamah said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, and said, O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell us the truth.