? Nessus would not give his desires to anyone else even if he cannot have Dejanira. When it comes to love life, this Nessus wins the arguments being a creative manipulator. Nessus: The Abusers Asteroid | My Christian Psychic You said at the end: saturn makes obsessive that which it touches.. I am looking for something in a guys natal chart that could tell me more about him. Most important to me is that you find Jesus. Both people would abuse each other depending on the planets. He may simmer with a Nessus that seems very close to the surface. Mars in Cancer tends to stuff things, so the abuse may go inside. It will be unreasonable to relate Nessus solely with these qualities. Haha I can see that. Youve helped me to understand how this asteroid interacts within myself and within a thoroughly toxic relationship in my past, so I thought you may be interested in how Ive been able to piece this mess together in retrospect. Or do planets take the higher order? I think he is verbally abusive sometimes/often..I have never been in a very long relationship..trying to have/find a healthy one not another abusive one. The terminology Nessus symbolizes abuse, manipulation, and excessive lust. How To Interpret Nessus Conjunct Various Planets and Angles People will come to you who are abusive and try to abuse you so be careful. I see more interpretations tho You can make use of this online facility to calculate Nessus and grab the data related to Nessus Astrology. One of the longest and yet most fruitless relationships I was in involved a man with this conjunction in Cancer. Chiron, Jupiter, and Saturn are planets that are considered positive planets in relation to Nessus as people controlled by these planets are usually unable to fight for themselves or fight for the victims of similar circumstances; instead, they are more likely to write about sexual assault or about those who have suffered abuse in the past. Pisces Moon Conjunct Nessus The Full Moon is distinctive for being conjunct Nessus, the third centaur (discovered 1993). This may make the Nessus much easier to control, Olivia. I often cried myself to sleep of which a voice tells me, i either accept it all and hope for the best or i dont accept it.. 6) He had no problem cheating if his partner allowed it. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. 12. I got nessus in Cancer conjunct Mars Retrograde in Gemini House 6 (4orb), ive never earned money on all activities i have made, ive almost lived all my life on social help. The orb of this asteriod is a little too wide to be conjunct his moon in capricorn, but it is opposite his mars in cancer. Honestly, people want to tell me Nessus is all manner of things. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. When its about abuse, it can be either physical or mental, or emotional abuse. If a person has Venus conj Nessus in the natal, THEY will get abused when in love. Pain from abuse I would say OR maybe abuses others as a way to deal with his pain but I think the former. Last Edit: Feb 11, 2018 3:44:41 GMT by 12YearsABlob. I am not saying that they lied. His progression IC leo 1935 and asterod lie in leo 1940 4th house. On the positive side, I see Nessus as someone who won't let himself be victimized. On the other hand, what do you think about a man with Nessus conjunct his sun, Venus and mars? What a catch. Abuse has become a problem in their life. Last december we made the plans to live with eachother, but he was suppose to come over with money with the sales of his houses. 4) He would threaten me with watching porn if we didnt have enough sex I am 26 never had sex or been in a romantic relationship but these choices Ive made accommodate a completely different and transformative perspective, to these people I have met who are hypersexual or have an addiction. right near my ascendant of gemini 28 degrees. Calculating Nessus in an individual doesnt give facts about their life, but there are various abuse and desires they have or could experience in their life. Neptune transits conjunct Moon Ambiguity surrounds your emotional and domestic life at this time. It is denoted by a pattern of rings. Person also suffered severe abuse as a child. Thus Nessus could help one end a vicious cycle. The planets indicate the real picture of nature and the intensity of the abuse. He called himself an idiot and swears to be a better man and that i will see it. Discovered in April 1993, this Centaur is situated beyond Saturn in the outer Solar System. I was with this person for 6 years, and it should have ended a good 5 and a half years before it did (thats more about my tolerance for subtle abuse, but ). The person will probably have difficulties identifying how the relations were abusive, making them stick around as they identify with abuse as an innate part of their life. oh wow this explains so much. If we could get arrested on thoughts,V, we would all be in jail. I believe that he believes what he says is true, at any rate. OMG You are spot on with me!! Your email address will not be published. Couldnt walk down the street without him bumping into one of his old friends. My boyfriend has his sun close conjunct his North Node in trine with my chiron, his actions has hurts me a lot. this is supposed to make a super crook, but for me not the case. Nessus can represent the distress of remaining faithful, silent, or unaware of ancestral traumas. His pain seems to supersede that of anyone else, in his eyes. Do you have stomach problems, Lalou? This abuse doesnt hold a single type, and the list is quite large. I dont know if its because both Nessus and Mars sit in Cancer, or because Ive had a boatload of therapy, I dont think I **am** abusive, just reactionary. Nessus is present in every persons birth chart or Natal Chart. What do you thik of Nessus Conjunct mars, Vertex and Pluto in Scorpio 5th, I am scared because I have Nessus (in Sagittarius in the 2nd house) trine Venus (Aries in the 5th house) and Nessus trine MC (7th house Taurus) AND Nessus square Jupiter (in 4th house in the sign Pisces). Still I keep wondering what I do wrong when I sense negativity towards me from people I've never really talked to. I have nessus 16 leo. Love, xoxoxo. They stand in eternal opposition to each other, showing us the points . Thanks so much! We learn by doing, so to speak lol. I saw how he used sex as a weapon and as a soother for his own psychological issues, and even though he told me his younger brother was molested by their baby-sitter when we was younger I think that he, too, was probably touched or abused in some way sexually. If you are interested, please e mail me, my Friend, Oh, and Nessus conjunct my North Node. January 28, 2013. Nessus conveys the personal experience of violent traumas and the combined efforts to counter such shocks. In his workplace his temper and words have caused so much drama and so many people have departed his company, but it was never his fault lol. Isnt that more pluto? After i wrote this down and been crying for days, he came to me and cried with me. Today for instance I felt verbally abused by someone I work with and I noticed the moon was transiting over my Venus Nessus conjunction which is trine my dejanira in aquarius. I want this to be an interesting thread. By clicking Accept All, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. 2) He seemed to regard this attention as no better or worse from a loved one or a stranger Beyond his death, Nessus killed Hercules by manipulating Dejanira into using his poisoned blood on Hercules. As the story goes, Nessus was a ferryman who fled his homeland after the Lapith war, making his way to the Aitolian River, where he set himself up to help people cross it. I feel like Ive known him my whole life even thought I havent met him in person yet. Nessus | Astrologers' Community Does this mean he had a difficult childhood? If youre interested in knowing more about how YOUR sign fits into the cosmos, you can get a FREE cosmic energy profile by following this link. It is said that if Nessus conjuncts your Natal planet, angle, or node, the person turns abusive. (Empty Pisces in 4th, retrograde Chiron opposing my in 5th). The effects of Nessus are felt more prominently expressed when they are within 2 degrees of the personal planets. My phone was checked often and I got questioned about many things, even though I carry 0% duplicity in relationships. The abuse things not for me in my life and for stay for other . Astronomically, Dark Moon Lilith is supposed to have a geocentric period of 119 days and to orbit at three times the distance of the Moon, while its diameter is said to be about one quarter that of the Moon. but its only really with my mom or super close members of my family that I do that. Thank you for spending your valuable time with me, M! Rather, you have a certain sexual appearance, you attract sexual attention. but i hated it. so me writing something is better than not if you know what i mean] :O. I knew a mars conj nessus. He wants to try to forge a relationship again. But it is more relevant and persistent when it is in the intersection with the Sun as the Ascendant or the Descendant. He may be identified by having Nessus traits. However, my father died in the 3rd month of my mothers pregnancy. Herakles, also known as Hercules and Dejanira, come into the story after they were recently married; Nessus was hired to assist the couple by getting Dejanira across the river. You can control it when you feel abusive and you have excellent personal power. Any major aspectual relationships, namely, conjunctions, sextiles, squares, trines, and oppositions that Nessus forms with the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus) and points (Ascendant, Descendant, Medium Coeli, and Imum Coeli), are given primary importance while interpreting the effects of its natal position. He will, likely, be an abuser. Such persons manipulate their siblings by using gossiping tactics to turn things in their way. I found him very attractive and would really have fallen for him is circumstances allowed. You mother is a super abuser YIKES. at least i think not. bring in your 2 cents or way more. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. He also used it as a weapon and many threats were made around frequency of sex and his use of porn was pretty ridiculous. I did a chart that showed Nessus conjunct Mars, orb of two minutes, in Gemini in the 8th house. Pluto (natal) and the partner has Nessus conj. Interestingly, he was also born on the day of the dead 31 October 1952 in Chousatta Louisiana. Has to be close not more than 3 degrees. This native may find the trait of abuse is enhanced( for lack of a better word). I traced his laptop, his phone, his accounts and found out that way what he was trying to hide. He COULD be abusive during sex. Should i leave this guy ? You have to just type your details on such websites, including the date of birth, time, city, and more. Our composite has wonderful romantic aspects but also Sun conjunct Nessus, Moon trine Dejanira/Saturn, Sun quincunx Moon and Saturn. The Aquarius Sun's conjunction with centaur object Nessus on Thursday may illuminate what props up an established order that serves few at the expense of many. Especially the body type. The next day i studied the arabic parts and it confirmed it again. Well, with Venus, you may attract abusive people. I tend to hurt and offend Leos unitentionally. chart. Im not an abusive person, but when I get very angry, I have been known to slap. To me, Nessus is abuse. Years later, after successfully leading the revolt, Herakles found Lole again. Typically, the inner ring has your natal birth chart details, and the outer one has the other person's. i also have nessus and sun square pluto. That is just a guess. Nessus Conjunct the Descendant This native may deny his own abusive nature ( and we all have the potential for abuse) and find an abusive partner. INDEX: Mythology| Significance in Astrology| Important Transits and Aspects. if(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[336,280],'cosmicdeity_com-box-4','ezslot_4',109,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-cosmicdeity_com-box-4-0');Keep reading to understand the various concepts related to Nessus Astrology and its signicance in the life of an individual. There is this guy who his hiding behind a facade and is hiding his true emotions (not for me though, I can see right through it) is afraid of letting people closer. My arabic part of weddings/ legal contracts is 2442 aries. I feel an attraction towards him. I go back and forth, about whether the current South Node conjunct guy is/will be abusive or not..or whether its workable. I hope I can do this in my articles. Weirdly enough they were usually not other kids but teachers who for some reason picked on me. And my Saturn square dejanara (Leo 7degr, exactly on the brink of my 8th and 9th house)? Hes very successful in his field with his female partner- his Nessus squares her Mercury, Venus and Mars. It conveys the interplay of cause and effect. Pisces Full Moon, Conjunct Nessus - Astrology from Planet Waves by Eric They will choose it as their response to the abuse. All the interpretations say abuse from the father and continuing the abuse oneself. The South Node represents that which we've already mastered, the comfortable tools we know exactly how to wield. It means that they start thinking negatively for themselves and get into the mentality to take part in violent actions. It indicates the obsession to have everything at any cost. This idea was built on later by the astrologer Delphine Jay. At the time of the workshop last month Tr Pholus was on 2959 Sagittarius, and therefore conjunct my natal Mercury/Venus-mp on 035 Capricorn, maybe . His Moon is also exactly conjunct my Descendant, and my Nessus (22 Libra) sits on the other side of his Moon. He has done it before so why wouldnt he do it again? It indicates the obsession to have everything at any cost. It involves everything that no family or social group wants to bring in front of others.